Comparing Self to Others? Learn 7 Reasons

Comparing Self to Others? Learn 7 Reasons

Comparison is the thief of happiness because when we do it, we simply put ourselves in a position where we find our purpose, whatever we stand for, useless. Of no worth at all.

Lack of value

Lack of value

Whether you compare yourself to others in physique, finance, intelligence, etc., you compare when you value others' possession highly and yours less – something you want to envy.

#1

We Don’t Want to Come Last

We Don’t Want to Come Last

Life is not a competition, but we make it. And when we’re in a competition, there are 99% chances that we will definitely do the comparison thing: self vs others.

#2

We See More in Other’s Plate

We See More in Other’s Plate

This means that no matter where you are, what you do, and what good position you might have, you’ll always consider other people better than yourself.

#3

Unacceptance

Unacceptance

When we see more in others’ plates, we don’t accept what we have got, which leads us to compare ourselves to others.

#4

Doubts

Doubts

Seeing others doing well, doubting ourselves whether we have chosen the wrong path, whether we will be successful or not, many such doubt-filled questions compel us to make comparisons

#5

High Privilege

High Privilege

You’d often hear Indian people saying that what less do they have than the children of Mukesh Ambani? Why do his children have all sorts of luxury, and they don’t.

#6

When We See Ourselves the Same as Other

When We See Ourselves the Same as Other

If your economic condition is bad just like the other person, then you'd do no discrimination against them. But if it's vice versa, you'll start comparing

#7

No matter how good we are on our path, as soon as someone better than us comes our way, we simply put our guard down.

Learn More About Comparing Self to Others?

Learn More About Comparing Self to Others?